Facebook : Face Off ! A Reminder to me Also ;)

This entry has nothing to do with the song Cinta Muka Buku or whatsoever.. but it just crossed my mind today... 

I think by now like everybody I mean nearly 90% of us has Facebook rite ?? Even kids without MyKid, MyKad pun at times dah ada FB.. so well lame topic to discuss actually..

But ,there are few interesting things I wanna write about ..

Rule #1 : Create a FB 

Fine , create an email & nahh.. you got your own FB.. Then you need profile Pic .. pls try your best to put your own pic as Profile Pic unless u r the Country  Prime Minister or Dato CT Nurhaliza that even without pic people still know how  you look like .. the reason is simple , you will know when you reach the Rule #2.

Rule #2 Add A Friend .

Dah ada account nak add friend right ? 

You can add as many people as you want , but then at times there are people out of the blue that add you.. 

Add is fine,  but  ... When , Both of u got no mutual friend , gambar pulak letak gambar bunga , kartunla , scenery la.. whatsoever, then nama pelik ex : Cinta Luv Honey , Bunga Rose Berduri ( just as an example ) okay.. 

So , there you goes, trying so hard to crack your head thinking who the hell is it ???

the worst thing is this " stranger " who add you leave no message , and when we try to check their wall to check maybe some post , tag pic of them that you can recall them, huh.. it was protected !!!!

how am I supposed to know u lah ????? pls refer to Rule#1 about having your own pic..

so there goes Rule #3 Confirm or Not Now , not necessary to confirm who " Add u As A Friend " but there's another option as "Not Now ' instead of " Confirm " .. there you go !

and that same goes to my FB too.. my FB is a Personal FB , not a Fan Page  that you can click "Like" and you can read the rest of the stuffs.. FB is not Twitter that you can just click the follow button & follow e person regardless he or she knows you or not...

therefore , my FB remained personal , as at times I updated my FB more that I tweet via twitter.. And as much I respect other people's personal FB , I dont really add people to my Friend's list too.. unless I knew that person , or I think I wanna know that person ; may be from their blog or if they are good photographer that I want to see their works ..

And again it goes back whether they will  accept me or not :) no harm here...

My FB friends at the moment is only at  411 of friends , and nearly half of them is mutual friends with my husband.. who has more friends :  561 friends at the moment..

At times not that I don't want to have too many friends , but one of the thing I did most of the time in my FB is uploading pic.. Photography , well sort of "syok sendiri amik gambar sendiri" was kinda of my hobby, so my FB is full of my pics.. too bad if at times you wanna puke looking at the " same " pose at different places.." 

 Well me a no Kim Kardashian or Kimora Lee ok :) so posing agak2 je lah.. dah yg amik gambar pun husband sendiri :)

then , some of the pics is a bit personal.. the reason why I wanna keep my FB as personal as I can..

Rule #4 Hide or Unfriend 

So, this brings me to some of those people , that were complaining about their friend's update , etc... In the first place , if you have this kind of meluat / menyampah or whatsoever feelings, why you be friend in e first place? You can always choose to "hide" if u think "unfriend " is too rude.. 

but as a lady / women / use to be girl before , I kind of have this weird orthodox feeling about some women who add people's husband as friend , unlikely didn't add the wifey .. unless you really know the husband - office mate , ex schoolmate , college mate etc... that's a different story..

My husband & I are very transparent with our  FB , cos most of the time I'll be the one updating it for him once in a blue moon.. but yes I did see that sometime he did got this kind of request that at times I felt like , wow, what were all these girls / ladies were thinking .. ??

being an orthodox female, I found this stuffs was like wth  :%#@$$ ? esp with some of the think they are sexy  pose that I wonder do this ladies / girls  realised what they were doing ???

 phew... speaking of social networking...

Back to this FB thing.. there's another rule for u ladies out there , if you found there are people that you happened to came across , maybe once you said hi & bye , who did know both of you but only add your husband / boyfriend instead of you together ..

 there's always a big General Rule : BLOCK !!!! ha.. ha.. :) not only to our FB , but also to our life ,,, syuhh.. syuh.. syuh you ugly lil @#$%&  go away ! 

And again this entry has nothing to do with any of my wonderful FB Friends ;) peace yo !!!